Thursday, August 11, 2011

Loss, Lose? Or Release?

The words loss or lose are words of failure and fear. The body/mind is programmed to win and to hold on to your property safely at all times. So to lose anything goes against everything you are programmed for does it not?

In order to make weight loss simpler, so our body/mind doesn't reject, resist, or fight against our endeavours - we must lose the word loss and the fear associated with it.

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

The Boxer and the girl with the Bridge Over Troubled Water

Simon & Garfunkel have been strongly involved in the curve of my lifes journey and it is time to tell a little of my story. My father came through clearly this morning and asked that I do so. He 'carried the reminder of every glove that laid him down or cut him till he cried out' and it was too heavy eventually for him to bear.
His death brought me grace and safety, for I knew the relationship between us would end with a gun, I just did not know who would be leaving this life. Until I was 35 years old I intermittently feared him, loved and hated him and tried to please him. He often told me to take off my rose tinted glasses, but I'm glad I have them. They are my Bridge Over Troubled Waters.
When I was 8 I saw the death of a man in the bush, and when my father died, he died in the place where my vision took place years before. We lose people through suicide and the comment is often made that people who do this are selfish. I experienced spiritually the walk that he took on a freezing cold August night, his mindset and heaviness, and know that selfishness was not his motivation as he passed from this realm. I know about broken spirits.
I believe and am told that we are all the 'Son of God'. Why do people die? So we can LIVE. Put down your reminders. Don't carry the reminders of others, take the grace of the lesson and go. Would you drink poison daily? To allow yourself to be tainted by regrets, resentment, and negativity daily is dishonouring the true grace of the gift of your life. My fathers death brought me to you so I could share my appreciation of the gift of life.
Through the pain and the fear I am proud and grateful to be his daughter.
Someone here today needs to know this. Put down your reminders and step into a sunlit patch of grass. And if you need help, come and see me. Simon & Garfunkel tell me my time has come to shine and all my dreams are on their way - I am here, I am real, I am alive, and I will help you find yours. With all my love, Deb X

10 Need to Know Points About Psychics!

A male friend of mine went to a psychic at a show who told him he would lose his best friend and kill himself. He had maybe 10 minutes with this guy, paid for his Reading and left. He walked away saying to himself "This guy is angry and how dangerous is it to tell people things like that?"
The same Psychic (on the same day) told a lady who was in great need of love, there would be no man in her life for 6 - 8 yrs, but good news if she concentrated on business she would be a millionaire eventually. The same lady was also told by an online psychic she had a curse on her family and house. Needless to say it was extremely upsetting and detrimental, in fact quite destructive to the lady in question. Nobody suggested support, house blessings, who to go to or to get a second opinion. In fact the online Psychic who started off free became expensive. (Of course)
We all agree on some level to have the experiences that we have on this earth plane however we open ourselves up to psychics and there are a few things that I've learned people need to know.
'Guides' or 'Guidance' is loose terminology. You can be guided for good or bad.
Psychics are NOT your last stop shop for information. Don't rely on their advice. Hear it, store it, browse it and see what unfolds. 'Psychic' information is sometimes harmful and destructive, do NOT sit with a Psychic and hand over your life power to them unless you feel they are nice well rounded people that you feel have a Divine link and are working from a place of love and progress. Some of them will hit you with a sledgehammer - their information might be accurate, but you better be able to cope with their form of delivery. Note: Review Danger information thoroughly. If it's about your health, your house or your car, get a second opinion, go to the Doctor, check smoke alarms, tyres etc. But if it's about spirits get further advice.
Psychic readings should be supporting you to make positive life changes and progress. To survive tough times and move on. To give you relevant information that YOU can work with. All psychics should be big enough to refer you to another good psychic if they don't believe they are the best person to help you at the time. (This goes for Healers too, some have great strengths in certain areas)
If you don't come away feeling empowered or with ongoing support for turning to the right people to help you through, ask for more information or to be referred to someone else.
1. All psychics are not created equal. They/We are people. Our life attitudes and destinies bring in certain guides that we work with. Some are higher, some are lower. Some are Guides you want guidance from and some are just plain horrible spirits that bat on low level teams.
2. Psychics receive information in different ways. Some feel, some see, some hear, some just know. They can all have off days, and sometimes, they just won't resonate with you and you won't resonate with them. You can get up and walk away if you feel like this person is not on your wavelength.
3. If a psychic tells you that you MUST leave your partner, listen closely, check how you feel about the psychic, how you feel about the information, ask where the information is coming from. Do NOT blindly follow guidance. Relationships are important for your growth. Hearing you MUST split may light the rocket you need under your butt to make a change to strenghten your relationship. Painful relationships teach us a lot. Dangerous and violent relationships are another story. You DON'T need a psychic to tell you to leave a relationship that is violent or dangerous, you and your children are precious. Danger and violence are dealbreakers. Take responsibility for yourself and get out. Also know this: If you are worried about whether your relationship is right for you - then you have work to do on yourself. Find out what it is and get started. All conecutive relationships will offer you the same problem until you have resolved Your Issue. Your partner will only reflect YOUR issues to you.
4. Remember a Psychic needs to feed their children. It's all very well to say it's a gift so you shouldn't charge money, but readings take time and time is money. Try shopping at the supermarket and paying for your groceries with unconditional love or try telling Kiri Te Kanawa that her voice is a gift (and you know it is) so she shouldn't charge for it. An energy exchange is necessary on some level for everything you do in life.
5. Often you will get a validation on your views of your life and where you are going. This is important, because you second guess yourself and give yourself a hard time and naturally you just don't listen. A reading is a business transaction and that makes a difference. You listen if you have paid money and the reading echoes what you thought. Sometimes a reading is all you need to say AHA and then off you go into your future with a little more strength, conviction and courage.
6. Word heal, create, and destroy. Listen carefully. Sieve through what you hear. Some of it will sound crazy. Trying to shape your life to fit your Reading is a silly idea. I've done it. It's a waste of time. Later on, if you took notes you will look back and say Blimey - I thought it was pink and it turned out to be magenta with polka dots.
7. Spirit time is not the same as human time and they get it wrong sometimes. Just accept this.
8. After a Reading the weight of the world should be OFF your shoulders, not on it.
9. Sometimes when a psychic is inaccurate you will say "AHA she was wrong." However the course you took as a result of the Reading will put you somewhere you needed to be. Pull up a soft chair, look at the big picture and see how that has worked out. Guides will sometimes send through info that will send you along the garden path a little cos you needed to smell the roses. Never be too big to change your mind or follow your heart and if a Reading makes your heart feel sore, investigate what your heart is trying to tell you. Maybe it had to feel sore so you would locate it - cos sometimes your head will put you crook. Listen to your heart.
10. Don't bang your head on a brick wall. Leopards are always going to be spotted regardless of whether this is inconvenient for you. A psychic cannot make anything happen for you. Getting mad with Psychics is a waste of time. I have also done this.
And sometimes even though it won't work out this way, a Psychic will tell you your ex is coming back, because if she or he doesn't you might not survive. A Psychic has also done this to me, and I got mad with her too, but it was very necessary at the time. A broken heart can sometimes be a broken spirit and a broken spirit can kill a person. And take note: When you have a broken spirit - you need a good Healer, not a good Psychic.
And remember the best thing you can do for yourself, in fact the most crucial, is to establish a high quality, high level link with your own Divinity. You are also Psychic, you just haven't necessarily developed it yet.
If there is anything contained within this, that you need to discuss - please contact me.
Love and Blessings, Deb X
(C) Deb Wharfe, April 2011

Reiki arrived in my life on a Friday...

Reiki arrived in my life on a Friday. I woke up thinking, hmm maybe I should go and have Reiki at some stage? I hadn't experienced it and didn't know what it was apart from knowing the lady over the road liked it and it felt good. I was working for myself then, doing readings and selling jewellery and gifts from my beautiful Studio at home.
The following week a man arrived in my Studio, bought some crystals, sat down at my table and asked me if I did healing.
I said no, but I might get some of the local Spiritual Church healers to come and do a workshop at my place. He told me that I would be healing, become a Reiki Master and teach large groups of people. He gave me a phone number and off I went to his Reiki Teacher, Sonja Carlile.
I had a beautiful day with Sonja in Waiuku and after my Level 1 Reiki Class I came home, feeling a little light headed and excited, and wondering if I could "really do it".
I slept soooo well and was looking forward to using Reiki. I had homework, practice Reiki on myself for 21 days - I had two young sons and thought it would be good for the children too.
As is often the way, the boys shared a bunk bed. My older son Caleb woke up very early the following morning and uttered the words no mother wants to hear "BLEEEEAAARGH I'm gonna be SICK" As he hopped out of bed I leapt up on 'autopilot damage control mode' praying for him to avoid vomiting on the carpet..... and then the weirdest thing happened. He ran around the corner and into the bathroom, leaned over the loo making awful noises, I was right behind him and put my hands on his back, saying "Don't be sick don't be sick" He gave a half heave and breathed in and said.. "Oh, wow - I don't feel sick anymore, in fact..... oh, I'm a bit hungry." I watched in stunned amazement as he left the bathroom and went to the dining table.
I was standing there wondering what happened and then realised my Reiki had switched on automatically as my hands were almost glowing. Caleb ate a huge bowl of cereal and went off to school right as rain.
Reiki has helped my family many times since and I have been priveleged to share it with countless people. It has definitely changed my life for the better and brought me many amazing experiences on my journey. The simplest and most graceful form of healing, anyone can learn it, as you are attuned by the Master. I felt scared when I went along because I had a bad memory and low self condfidence, but I was so reassured and then came to understand, that Reiki is a process that you learn by doing. It'is a blessing in my life, and can be the same for you.
We have been doing Reiki before time began, and all we need is guidance and reminding.

The Secret and very tricky path to world peace...

The Secret and Very Tricky path to World Peace:
On a rainy day - skip in a puddle.
On a sunny day - lie on the grass.
On a cloudy day - make pictures in the clouds.
On any day - hold out your hand to someone, anyone and have fun.
Blow love into the hearts of people everywhere, blue, pink, red, orange, green, yellow or purple. Regardless of what they call their God or whether they have one; even if they don't understand you, you don't understand them or they make you mad. Small kids know how to do this because they wave at you when they are on the bus. Do you wave back? Hug people. Anyone. Do random acts of kindness. And feel love. Feel awe. Experience beauty. Welcome kindess, radiate miracles. Dream BIG dreams.And don't, don't, don't take anything too seriously regardless of what the fun police will tell you. Pray meaningfully or find meaning in something that brings your heart peace. Contact the Centre of yourSelf for you are worth listening to. Follow your heart. Remember when you point your finger there are three pointing back at you, so if you're pointing at someone, your finger should probably be loaded with blessings. Drink plenty of water. Get some sleep too. And DON'T wear sunscreen, that stuff is poisonous!!! Peace. xo

Flying to Sydney....

When inspiration, passion and amazing ideas are pouring into your mind and someone rains on your parade; put up your umbrella, take no notice and skip in their puddles all the way to your dreams. Deb X

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Hay House Australia Writers Workshop

Wow, yes I'm fresh back from the HH Workshop - I am not quite back on the ground yet. Thursday - Auckland to Melbourne at a crazy time and Melbourne to Auckland Friday night.  The wheels fell off my wagon yesterday after a sleep starved flight and I'm just so grateful for a great sleep last night.
Melbourne wildly surpassed my expectations and delivered again.
The most sensational mix of fabulous people, kind hospitality, links to incredible contacts and endless possibilities. One thing that came through loud and clear over the last few days was how important social media was and how important it is for me to keep writing and sharing regardless of what others opinions are. And so it begins......