Looking for Love

Looking for Love

 

If you were your own True Love, how delighted you would be with your own quirkiness. 

How beautiful you would find your curves, how courageous your scars and your marks left by lifes wounding and how very telling the well earned stripes of your stretch marks would look.

How gentle and patient you would be with yourSelf if something felt sad.

How carefully you would choose your words.

You would find yourSelf so funny, so beautiful, so kind and so caring. You would be awed with what a great person you are, even after all the challenges you have had. You would tell yourSelf not to be hard on yourself; that you always did the best could, that you are worth the very best life has to offer, and you would make sure you gave precious time to yourSelf.

You would surround yourSelf with good people and good ideas.

You would find yourSelf lovely little things to do, you’d light yourself a candle, you would take yourSelf constantly out on dates, fill your life with little kindnesses and you would give yourSelf the best experience ever of love, encouragement and delight.

You would adore yourSelf and want to hear what your heart has to say.

You would dream of the best things you could do, the best places you could go, and you would laugh about some of the dreams. And some would enter your heart.

You’d be ever so grateful for the miracle of you.

And if you did that?

You would be filled with light, with love, with encouragement, with delight…

You would be the You that You really are, cherished, honoured and loved.

You would be the One you can lean on, the One you trust, the One you seek out.

The One you are ‘looking for’ would be right on the end of your nose.

The other end, not the one we traditionally mean.

When you are that One, what often happens, is your resultant satisfied, joyous heartsong of overflowing love that resonates out into the Universe calls with the right harmony for a resonant heart to hear it.

In order to find this, find yourSelf.

You are your own most precious gift.

Pour all that love you are waiting to give someone into yourSelf, step into your own awesome sunshine and see the truth of your delicious magnificence one yummy drop at a time.

Would you?

I’d like that.

Deb x

Dear Friend

Dear Friend, 
                   I hear you having the same problem and being mad at people who are not doing what you want them to do. They are not treating you how you want to be treated.
You cannot control them. After all - if they tried to control you - you would consider it an insult. Leave them alone.
They are not treating you how you would like to be treated because...
a. You have not given them a guide by treating yourself well.
b. They are resonating to a different energy from the one your body/field is trying to move into.
It hurts because you are holding a finite vision of yourself.
It hurts because within it there is an absence of love.
One train of thought says people do 'mean things' to themselves and each other because they don't understand what 'honouring' is and they have forgotten who they are. Another train of thought says 'Every moment is perfect.'
In the Bible it says Adam went to sleep and nowhere does it say he woke up.
I find that interesting.
You must awaken in this body in order to make peace with what you feel are recurring 'problems.' Perfect learning is in each 'problem', perfect opportunities, perfect growth, strength, realignment, and so much more. Be ok with the lesson and it will work for you. Hold resistance and this resistance will cause you pain. You will have the lesson again if you refuse to understand it.
Every person on this planet has free will, and many are exercising it. You included. You have the choice to walk clear of painful situations and to also not turn you attention to pain.
Yet you wish to punish yourself by doing this.
It only needs investigating if you do not wish for peace.
Peace is with you when you choose to illuminate its presence.
Love is with you when you choose to illuminate its presence.
Limitless power is with you when you choose to acknowledge its presence.
Limitless power is you.
You are not broken. You merely need to step fully into your own shoes. 
And know you are dearly, divinely, always loved.
Deb x